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Delivering bad news
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Background
- Physicians must disclose bad news to family members - often times unexpected notification of death can be difficult for family.
- The process can be challenging for providers.
- Using a structured approach can help alleviate the emotional challenging of delivering the bad news.
- Think of delivering bad news as a procedure (with a pre-procedure time out, a structured approach to the delivery of bad news, and requesting a colleague in the ED to hold your phone or take any runs that come in while you are in your critical five minutes of breaking the news.
Types
- Notification of death
- Informing of poor prognosis e.g. "It's not my job to take away all hope, but I am very worried about _ and he/she is very sick"
Procedure
- Time Out Before the Procedure (Mandatory)
- Confirm identity of patient and family specifically that family is TRULY the family of the patient. Can be difficult when the patient arrives as a "Joe Doe" without family. Before having meeting, identification processes (social work can assist) with confirming age, demographic, location that patient came from (can be found on the EMS run sheet).
- Confirm that you known the name of the patient so that way you can refer to him/her by his/her name. Ask social work if they know the names of the family and/or their relation to the patient.
Approaches
GRIEVING
- Gather ‐ Get SW in room,
- Resources ‐ +/‐ security, tell attending will have to be gone, get pager/trauma coverage
- Identify person we are talking about, myself and all people in room, identify level of understanding of what has happened already
- Educated ‐ warning shot "I have some bad news." Don't wait too long before saying "___ has died."
- Verify understanding
- Inquire ‐ questions
- Nuts/Bolts Give contact info
- Give the family space to process; Be silent
SPIKES
- SETTING UP the Interview
- Arrange for some privacy, Involve significant others, Sit down.
- Make connection with the patient.
- Manage time constraints and interruptions.
- PERCEPTION
- "What have you been told so far?”
- Assess receiver's level of health literacy.
- INFORM
- Briefly explain chronology of events leading up to death (or bad news)
- Avoid euphemisms
- Knowledge
- Allow receiver to ask questions.
- Empathy
- Validate emotions of grieving.
- Say "I'm sorry."
- Summary and Strategy
- Acknowledge questions may arise after processing, establish your availability to be reached by social work in they have questions that come up when they see their loved one.
- Leave receiver with social work. "I'm going to step out and let (the social worker) help you with the next steps"
Tips
- If family asks if they suffered, consider (assuming it would not be obviously a lie) what if any utility there would be to saying anything other than: "No, he/passed peacefully." After all, our patients are also the family of the deceased.
External Links
See Also
References
- Emergency Medicine Conference at Boston Medical Center 2015. Contributions by multiple facutly (including Dr Jeffrey Schneider and BMC EM residents
- Lowry, Fran. Think GRIEV_ING When Giving Bad News to Loved Ones. ACEP News. April 2007
- SPIKES—A Six-Step Protocol for Delivering Bad News: Application to the Patient with Cancer, Baile, et al. The Oncologist. Jun 2000. (http://theoncologist.alphamedpress.org/content/5/4/302.full)
- Shoenberger, Jan MD et al. Death Notification in the Emergency Department. Western J Emerg Med. 2013;14(2):181-185.